On Being an “Other” Girl

Somewhere out there in the ass-crack of the internet, is an article that discusses "other" girls. Defined as the girls who present themselves as atypical and living in direct contradiction to all feminine stereotypes and expectations, "other" girls harbor tomboyish interests, tendencies, and mannerisms; they are the girls who absolutely cannot be disturbed during the … Continue reading On Being an “Other” Girl →

Praising Girls, Or How to Raise a Country of Smart Folk

Hold on to your hats, folks, because I've got an idea that will blow your mind: parents should praise their daughters for more than just their looks. I know, right? Genius. This wisdom comes from an article I read a while back that suggested parents should praise their daughters for other qualities and accomplishments so that girls would grow … Continue reading Praising Girls, Or How to Raise a Country of Smart Folk →

Leeches Be Scary: On Being Yourself

Perhaps the scariest phenomenon I've ever been unfortunate enough to experience (and mind you, this is scarier than the mouse incident, so ya'll know shit's about to get real) is something I like to call, "The Leech-and-Keep." It's essentially when a friend takes every facet of your personality - from your preferences, to your interests, … Continue reading Leeches Be Scary: On Being Yourself →

How to Be a Kickass Wingwoman

Everyone knows that a good classic wingwoman will be the goofy, forward one and do whatever is necessary to make sure her friend "gets the guy." But I believe that wingwoman duties should encompass more than just helping your boo get her flirt on. After all, a wingwoman's job description is basically to make her own … Continue reading How to Be a Kickass Wingwoman →